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Sunday, September 30th, 2007
BBW - Judy Blume

The other day, my husband called to tell me Judy Blume was being interviewed on NPR (Yes, the same local channel who censored my website, but whatever). Anyway, I’m a HUGE fan of Blume’s books and she’s the number two most challenged author since 1990 - for a writer of some truly amazing and memorable children’s books, I find the idea ridiculous but there you have it.

As it happens, Blume has written some really wonderful thought pieces about censorship (and speaks of it eloquently as I’ve come to hear each time she’s interviewed) but one of my favorite essays of hers is actually the introduction to a book called “Places I Never Meant To Be”

When Margaret was published in 1970 I gave three copies to my children’s elementary school but the books never reached the shelves. The male principal decided on his own that they were inappropriate for elementary school readers because of the discussion of menstruation (never mind how many fifth- and sixth-grade girls already had their periods). Then one night the phone rang and a woman asked if I was the one who had written that book. When I replied that I was, she called me a communist and hung up. I never did figure out if she equated communism with menstruation or religion.

It gets far worse for her after 1980 when her books are challenged every day and groups begin to picket and organize against her writing and her books.

I found myself at the center of the storm. My books were being challenged daily, often placed on restricted shelves (shades of Elizabeth, New Jersey, in 1955) and sometimes removed. A friend was handed a pamphlet outside a supermarket urging parents to rid their schools and libraries of Judy Blume books. Never once did the pamphlet suggest the books actually be read. Of course I wasn’t the only target. Across the country, the Sex Police and the Language Police were thumbing through books at record speed, looking for illustrations, words or phrases that, taken out of context, could be used as evidence against them.

I think there are a few reasons what she has to say resonates with me so strongly - first, her books were a hugely formative part of my youth and puberty. I can remember reading Are You There God, It’s Me, Margaret, I can remember crying as I read Blubber. When I read her books I didn’t feel alone. At the time, it just made me feel better. But now I understand how much of a gift it takes to write like that. And that leads me to the second reason, I write too. No, I’m no Judy Blume. I’d never presume to make the comparison, but I do understand how the world can feel scary when you take risks with your writing and say things people are afraid to hear.

She talks about how her editor read a passage in Tiger Eyes and brought up how it would attract trouble over content. She describes standing there, with this person who’d been with her through her other books and feeling so alone. And in the end, she took out the lines.

What effect does this climate have on a writer? Chilling. It’s easy to become discouraged, to second-guess everything you write. There seemed to be no one to stand up to the censors. No group as organized as they were; none I knew of, anyway. I’ve never forgiven myself for caving in to editorial pressure based on fear, for playing into the hands of the censors. I knew then it was all over for me unless I took a stand. So I began to speak out about my experiences. And once I did, I found that I wasn’t as alone as I’d thought.

She found a group, the National Coalition Against Censorship (NCAC) and began to speak out against censorship. The essay, which I’ve linked above, gives countless examples of teachers who either censored books or were punished for not censoring their students. Of school adminstrators removing important classics like “To Kill A Mockingbird” and “The Red Badge of Courage.”

What I worry about most is the loss to young people. If no one speaks out for them, if they don’t speak out for themselves, all they’ll get for required reading will be the most bland books available. And instead of finding the information they need at the library, instead of finding the novels that illuminate life, they win find only those materials to which nobody could possibly object.

Some people would like to rate books in schools and libraries the way they rate movies: G, PG, R, X, or even more explicitly. But according to whose standards would the books be rated? I don’t know about you but I don’t want anyone rating my books or the books my children or grandchildren choose to read. We can make our own decisions, thank you. Be wary of the censors’ code words — family friendly; family values; excellence in education. As if the rest of us don’t want excellence in education, as if we don’t have our own family values, as if libraries haven’t always been family-friendly places!

This is why I speak out. This is why I speak up. Books have always been important in my life. They’ve transported me to other times, other places, they’ve helped me understand myself, my place in the world, they’ve amused me, made me mad, challenged me, taught me, infuriated me and have been a constant companion.

I can still remember the first time I read certain books - Toni Morrison’s Beloved for instance (and one that shows upon the challenge list every year). Harper Lee’s To Kill A Mockingbird - oh the anger at injustice I felt! Vaclav Havel’s Living in Truth - the one book I think has formed my adulthood the most and interestingly enough, a book with several essays about censorship, LOL.

I don’t think everyone has to agree with me or my ideas. I don’t think everyone has to agree with the ideas in the books I write or read or love. But the idea that anyone out there believes a book like Beloved shouldn’t be available breaks my heart and makes me mad.

The bottom line is, censorship happens, often when you least expect it. It’s not just about the book you may want to read but about the book your classmate might want to read. It’s not just about teachers and librarians at other schools who might find themselves in job-threatening situations — it could happen at your school. Your favorite teacher, the one who made literature come alive for you, the one who helped you find exactly the book you needed when you were curious, or hurting, the one who was there to listen to you when you felt alone, could become the next target.

Sunday, September 30th, 2007
Come Party With Me Tomorrow!

I’m doing a List Mom day to celebrate the upcoming release of READING BETWEEN THE LINES from 10 eastern until 3 eastern on Monday October 1 at the Samhain Café! (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/samhaincafe/)

I’ve got excerpts from:

Lorelai James
Sydney Somers
Nell Dixon
Lila Dubois
Michelle Pillow
Charli Teglia
Nancy Lidel
NJ Walters
Gia Dawn
TJ Michaels
Rod Casteel
Pam Champagne
And
Linda Winfree

Come join us for a fun afternoon!

Saturday, September 29th, 2007
Banned Books Week!

Last year I celebrated the whole week here at my blog and it was so fun I’m doing it again this year! Today a basic overview of the week and what it’s all about.


You can start by checking out the American Library Association’s Fabulous Banned Books Week Site!

Banned Books Week (BBW) celebrates the freedom to choose or the freedom to express one’s opinion even if that opinion might be considered unorthodox or unpopular and stresses the importance of ensuring the availability of those unorthodox or unpopular viewpoints to all who wish to read them. After all, intellectual freedom can exist only where these two essential conditions are met.

The “10 Most Challenged Books of 2006″ reflect a range of themes, and consist of the following titles:

And Tango Makes Three” by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell, for homosexuality, anti-family, and unsuited to age group; (This book is about penguins. Not made up penguins, but real penguins at a zoo who adopt an abandoned egg and raise the chick. The two adult penguins are male. Yes, the entire furor over the book is that the penguins in a nature book were male)

Gossip Girls” series by Cecily Von Ziegesar for homosexuality, sexual content, drugs, unsuited to age group, and offensive language;

Alice” series by Phyllis Reynolds Naylor for sexual content and offensive language;

The Earth, My Butt, and Other Big Round Things” by Carolyn Mackler for sexual content, anti-family, offensive language, and unsuited to age group;

“The Bluest Eye” by Toni Morrison for sexual content, offensive language, and unsuited to age group;

Scary Stories” series by Alvin Schwartz for occult/Satanism, unsuited to age group, violence, and insensitivity;

“Athletic Shorts” by Chris Crutcher for homosexuality and offensive language.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower” by Stephen Chbosky for homosexuality, sexually explicit, offensive language, and unsuited to age group (BTW, as a parent of a son who is very different from his peers, this book is one I know I’ll be giving him in a few years. It’s a really amazing book even for adults)

“Beloved” by Toni Morrison for offensive language, sexual content, and unsuited to age group;

The Chocolate War” by Robert Cormier for sexual content, offensive language, and violence. (this is one of the smartest YA books I’ve ever read. It doesn’t have a happy ending per se, but it’s a scarily accurate view of what it’s like to be an adolescent. I do read a lot of YA books, by the way, it’s part of the parenting gig and my oldest is getting to the age where some of these books are appropriate reading. I also like them too!)

Off the list this year, but on for several years past, are the “Catcher in the Rye” by J.D. Salinger, “Of Mice and Men” by John Steinbeck and “The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn” by Mark Twain.

Freedom to read different ideas, even if you disagree with them or they challenge you, is one of our most important and cherished freedoms. As the author of Fahrenheit 451, Ray Bradbury, said, “You don’t have to burn books to destroy a culture. Just get people to stop reading them.”

I grew up in a household that treasured this concept. From a very early age I read everything I could put my hands on. If I had trouble or found something I couldn’t understand or made me upset, my parents used this as a teaching moment.

I’m not saying you have to agree with everything, or that you have to let your children read anything they want. I do think we, as a culture, seem to have a growing fear of ideas we don’t agree with and rather than listen to them and debate with our own, or simply ignore those ideas we loathe, we find it necessary to silence those other ideas.

As an author that frightens me. The books I write often contain sexually graphic material. Some of them have magic and paranormal creatures. Some of them have violence, some of them are menages with male/male contact. I understand and respect that not everyone will like them or agree with them. I don’t let my children read my books, that wouldn’t be age appropriate although I don’t generally go out of my way to hide what I write from them. But last year, my husband, stuck in traffic and listening to the local NPR station, heard the weekly call in show about new books and he called in to talk about mine. They put him through and he sat in a queue until they came back to him and told him they looked at my website and decreed it inapprorpriate for the adult audience to hear about on the radio. Apparently they decided the “elderly audience” listening “would be offended” and with an apology, they cut him off.

Adults are now being babysat by other adults because their own belief system is so weak they’re unable to hit the back key on their computer after hearing my website on a radio talk show. This is ridiculous.

If two male penguins sitting on an egg disturbs you and you think it’s somehow inappropriate for your children, I respect your right to believe so. I respect your right to take an active part in your child’s reading and intellectual life by not allowing it to be checked out from the library or purchased. What I don’t respect is the attempt to stop MY children from reading it because, it is my belief that a fear of two male penguins taking care of an egg is irrational. Beliefs - everyone has em and that’s a GOOD thing.

Ideas are not dangerous. The ABSENCE of ideas is.

Friday, September 28th, 2007
Friday Booktalk

A Little Night Music - Sarah Dale

I had this one in my TBR pile for a while. I’ve really enjoyed Cheek’s contemporaries and this book kept that streak going.

Hannah kisses her idol, rock star Nate when she’s a clumsy 17 year old but after she runs off in horror, she vows she’ll bed him one day.

So lo and behold, nine years later she’s a bigshot PR specialst handling celebrities who need a comeback and Nate has gone from the heights of success to rock bottom and is trying to make his way back.

Of course they have great chemistry from go and an intense physical relationship starts on the sly but the media can’t be far behind and Hannah feels she’ll have to choose between her job and the man she’s come to love.

I think Dale (who also writes under a few other names in several genres, all quite ably) takes a cliche and gives it life in this story.

This isn’t a young girl’s crush and an old has been - in Hannah and Nate, we’ve got two interesting and complicated people who have to really figure out who they are and what is truly important.

The sex is very well done (Dale also writes erotica with another pen name) and I came away really entertained. This is a truly well written erotic romance. I highly recommend it!

Emma Holly - Fairyville

I love Emma Holly. I think hers were the first true erotic novels I read with romantic elements. I’ve remained a fan as she transitioned into steampunk and paranormals but I’ve always loved her erotics best. I think this may be why I wasn’t shocked by the level of sexuality in the book, given her backlist, I assumed the book would have a lot of sexual content.

Fairyville is a great mix of paranormal and erotic. And make no mistake, Fairyville is an erotic with an HEA. I’ll say up front there is about 60% of the sexual interaction in the book that is male/male but IMO, few people write it as well as Holly and I thought she did a bang up job (um, no pun intended)

I want to say I think of many authors out there in the erotic romance/erotica genre, Emma Holly is a prime example of how it’s not about the specific combination of body parts but about the connection and emotion in the scene. When I read Fairyville, much as when I read Menage (the first Holly book I read and the book that changed my perspective on MM romance many years ago) - what caught me was the people, not their gender.

Zoe is a wonderfully likeable character who is unusual for a romance heroine (I’ll let you read it to see why). Magnus is a fabulous hero. The other cast of characters from an evil Fairy queen to the Alex (the changeling PI) and Bryan, his human lover are all flawed and interesting.

I wanted more of the little fairies and of the fairy realm and I hope Holly takes us back there soon.

A fun, sexy read.

Suzanne Enoch - Twice The Temptation

While I enjoy Enoch’s historicals, it’s really her contemporary series with Sam and Rick that makes me seek her out so when I saw this half and half historical/contemp about a cursed diamond that featured Sam and Rick, I grabbed it.

I rather enjoyed the first novella, the historical one featuring Rick’s ancestor and his heroine. I think what I liked most was the way the heroine was far more complex than we first understand. It takes a lot to maneuver that much in a novella.

And of course, having all the background on Sam and Rick in previous books, the second novella flowed better because the world, etc is already established.

Great sexual chemistry between them and Sam and Rick are fabulous characters!

A really fun read and now I must get to A Touch of Minx - a full length Sam and Rick story.

Friday, September 28th, 2007
What A Week For Books!

This has been a great week for book lovers!

Today at Ellora’s Cave - Bona Fide Liar by Red Garnier releases!

Bona Fide Liar

Alex will do whatever it takes to keep male coworkers away from Carly. Who cares if she hates his guts? He wants her bad. He can barely believe his eyes when Carly sways seductively toward him and speaks the words he’s been longing to hear. Her place. Bring the plastics. There really must be a god! It’s finally time to make Carly his—for real this time.

Carly has heard her share of lies, but the ones spilling out of Alexander’s lips beat them all. The gall of him, spreading nasty rumors of them doing all manner of kinky things—even if she has dreamed about it. Carly’s determined to pay him back, and she’s wasting no time putting her perfect plan into action.

Red is one of my favorite up and comers! I think in a year or two she’s gonna make it big. I love her voice and this one is in my TBR pile (I would have read it already but I had to finish up a revision - which I did last night). Anyway, I’ll be reviewing it when I do you can bet on it.

And on Wednesday - another favorite Mandy Roth released Demonic Desires from Ellora’s Cave!

Demonic Desires

She might look fragile, but Ava Fenaly is fierce. She knows a thing or two about magik, and she knows exactly what she’s doing when she summons a demon in her bedroom. Well, almost. Ava is convinced that the exhilarating, almost terrifying night of passion that follows is all a dream. It has to be, because she’s dead set against revisiting her past—and the horrors she left behind long ago.

For the last three-hundred-plus years, Donatus Manlian has been living a peaceful life. Lonely, but peaceful. When the demon he has kept carefully locked within for centuries finally breaks free and responds to Ava’s call, the peace—and the loneliness—are gone. Now Donatus is forced to revisit tragedies long buried as he protects Ava from the evil that pursues her. But another evil lies within him—and now that it’s been awakened, the demon wants free.

No secret I love Mandy’s writing and this one and Guardian are in my TBR file too!

And wow, look at the list of authors in the newest Caveman Anthology - Seasons of Seduction III!

SOS III

Six of EC’s really fabulous authors (and two of my personal uber faves Charli Teglia and NJ Walters)

Sunshine for a Vampire By N.J. Walters
Sunshine DeMarco is a blonde-haired, blue-eyed vampire who just doesn’t fit in with her own people. She doesn’t really like the whole vampire lifestyle — the opulent surroundings and overindulgence in everything from food to drink to blood. But even she has family and social obligations.

While attending a party for a special European dignitary, she finds herself captivated by a tall, dark stranger. One sensual dance between them leads to a passionate tryst in the host’s garden.

Reality intrudes and Sunshine flees, but she hasn’t seen the last of her mystery lover.

I Was an Alien’s Love Slave By Charlene Teglia
Micki Sloane needs a hero and she needs him now. She’s got a deadline, writer’s block and no inspiration. What to do? Wish on a star.

Keelan Os’tana has been seeking his bondmate, the one woman who is on his wavelength — literally. He answers Micki’s mental call by beaming her up into erotic adventure beyond her wildest imaginings. Her options? Form the permanent telepathic bond with Keelan or go home and write for the tabloids. “I Was an Alien’s Love Slave” is a sure seller, but Keelan tempts her to live the fantasy instead.

But look, the other four? Fabulous too. Go and check it out!

Last but way not least - Snowbound by Larissa Ione from Samhain

Snowbound

Thanks to a devastating medical diagnosis, ski patroller Sean Trenton has endured two years of celibacy. Two long years that have chipped away at his confidence. Now, with the career opportunity of a lifetime on the line, he’s ready to remedy the celibacy situation, and sexy snowbunny Robyn Montgomery is just what the doctor ordered.

Unfortunately, the last thing reliable, intense radio station manager Robyn Montgomery wants in her suddenly turbulent professional and personal life is a thrill-seeking former Olympic skier—even if he is a total hottie. She’s had it with guys who hog the spotlight and leave her in the shadows. So why is it that even an icy blizzard can’t temper the combustible heat between them?
I’ve had this one on my TBB list forever so I can’t wait to wade through all the other stuff on my to do list to get to this one!

Thursday, September 27th, 2007
Featured (oh and contests)

The wonderful Rachelle has featured me and two of my books at her blog with chances to win them so get on over there!

Thursday, September 27th, 2007
THIRTEEN SONGS I’M CURRENTLY ADDICTED TO

THIRTEEN SONGS I’M CURRENTLY ADDICTED TO

1. Whitney Houston - It’s Not Right, But It’s Okay - Holy cripes do I love this song.

2. Chaka Khan - I’m Every Woman. Okay so yesterday I got all gushy about her here. I’ve done it before and I’m sure I’ll do it again. There’s no one like her. I love to turn this up loud and dance around the house with Morrigan. I can cast a spell, secrets you can tell…

3. Tool, Jambi - this is probably my very favorite Tool song (a feat I must say because I love Tool!) This one is on many a writing soundtrack. Oh the video is matched up with scenes from The 300. Mmmm, abtastic.

4. Tool - Forty Six and Two - my second favorite Tool song and more abtastic goodness…

5. The Donna’s Too Bad About Your Girl - sometimes simple, silly rock and roll hits the spot. I wish the Donnas got more media attention.

6. Goldfrapp - Ooh La La - god, another band who needs more attention. A friend turned me on to them a few years ago and once I heard Black Cherry how could I not fall in love. This one has become a recent favorite as I revised Stripped. I can totally see Dahlia dancing to this.

7. Depeche Mode - I Feel You. There’s pretty much always a DM song on my current obsession list. This week it’s this one.

8. Twista and Pharrel - Give It Up. Also on my Stripped tracklist.

9. MC Solaar, Ben Oui - don’t have any idea what he’s saying but it’s all in French and sounds so good. He’s probably ordering a burger or whatever, still sounds sexy.

10. Dudes, I love Reba. Like seriously totally love her. And she did this duets thing with Kelly Clarkson and they did Because of You and it’s just a fab song and makes me cry every time I hear it. But anyway, I’m not a huge country music fan but Reba is a great example of how great music is simply great music. I have to link because the video is disabled for embedding. But this one is on Reba’s recent release and so worth checking out.

11. Gwen Stefani - Wind Up - the bass drum in this song kicks ass.

12. Dave Matthews Band - Crash Into Me. Hike Up Your Skirt A Little More…And Show The World To Me…

13. And another bit of the 1980’s - Eurythmics - Here Comes The Rain. Annie Lennox has a voice that makes me always stop and listen. Beautiful. Click here to see the video

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Wednesday, September 26th, 2007
Ain’t Nobody…

Do it better than Chaka Khan. That is all…

Wait, an addendum - head over to itunes and buy “Ain’t Nobody” if you don’t have it yet. You’ll thank me. Doesn’t matter what music you listen to, she’s amazing.

While you’re at it, grab I’m Every Woman. Turn it up and shake your ass. This is my gift of joy and whimsy to you on a Wednesday.

Tuesday, September 25th, 2007
Tuesday I’ve Got Friday On My Mind

This is potty training central. Sigh. Time number three. This one a girl so I don’t have to constantly redirect penises, which is nice and far less messy. (Again, I know, so glamorous!!). I find myself giving praise for bodily functions, which is, um odd outside of sex, LOL, and no, I don’t give my dude stickers or clap for him, even when he’s got his A game working. She likes to bring her barbie in with her and put her on the back of her seat. Whatever. As long as she doesn’t fall in, I’m game with whatever will get her out of pull ups because after what seems like an eternity of changing diapers (and my oldest will be 10 in November so yeah, a looooong time, each time I get one trained I ended up having another)

I’m in that “in between books” stage. I’m trying to settle in and work on something. I just figured out the opening to dirty/bad/wrong last night and this morning. My husband always listens to me so patiently when I pelt him with my ideas, LOL. And he’s a great sounding board and helps me plot too. I’m also revising something so that’s a task which uses a different writerly brain muscle.

Chased is out in print today! Wheee! I don’t see it listed at My Bookstore and More yet though, grr. It is however, now shipping from barnes and noble!

Even more good news? To Do List will be in a print combo with Jaci Burton’s Unwrapped in September of next year. How freaking thrilled am I? More details as they’re worked out.

Monday, September 24th, 2007
WINNER(s)

The winner of an ARC of Reading Between the Lines is: Cherie Japp! Email me with your format choice and I’ll send it your way! Everyone else, I’ll be doing more giveaways so keep an eye out.

And the winner of an ARC of Michelle Pillow’s Along For the Ride is: Tracyjean! Tracy, I’ll need your mailing address to forward to Michelle!

Congratulations!