Well, we had this discussion exactly a year ago on my blog, LOL. And you know I don’t care for it. I can handle it if it’s not overused, but there are those authors that overuse what I’ll term (for lack of a better word) ‘dirty’ language in their love scenes.

But, I also admitted in the same blogpost that I wouldn’t be perturbed if my own cleancut hubby would talk a little dirtier. However, I would draw the line at the “c” word. (See? I can’t even say it…erm… write it :oops:).

And… excuse me… kitty?

So, I didn’t used to use bold words…except during sex. Now, if it fits in a story, I stick it in there with no shame. I prefer ‘cock’ to ‘dick’ depending on context. Most men don’t refer to their penis as a ‘cock’ where I come from. They use the ‘D’ word instead, but some pubs won’t touch that word. Don’t understand why if they’ll take everything else. But that’s another story.

I’ll use pussy, coochie, the occasional cunt, and sometimes kitty if the moment is ‘cute’ enough. I try to mix it up so no word is overused, but sometimes “fuck, fuck, fuck” in the middle of a hard scene is all the person can manage to say.